Wednesday Wisdom

Confidence is one of the most important traits one can possess. You need to be confident in what you bring to the table. Whether that’s being an A+ friend, a top notch co worker, or a reliable spouse. Put the blinders on and remind yourself about things in life you have already overcome. Nobody else’s opinions really matter at the end of the day so don’t let it affect you negatively. How are you improving if you are thinking and worrying about what others have to say? If someone is hating and has negative shit to say, thank them for paying attention and keep it moving. Have empathy for people that are that insecure about where they are at, they feel the need to try to bring you down to their level. You know the people’s opinions who actually matter, it’s the handful of people you call when you really need something. Keep the influence circle real small and quit trying to please everybody, it’s impossible and you will be much more confident and happy when you realize that! Best wishes!